FAQs

  • Step 1: Every new client begins by completing a submission form. Once I review your application, I may invite you to the next step.

    For verification, please provide either:

    • Two (2) provider references (names, email addresses, websites from the last 12 months), or

    • Your professional website (LinkedIn, company webpage) and/or public social media page.

    Step 2: Once your application and verification are approved, you’ may receive an invitation to schedule a paid introduction:

    • Video chat consultation ($100)

    • Social affair ($50 deposit; $250/hour)

    This introduction allows us to build chemistry, establish boundaries, and ensure our compatibility before a full BDSM session.

  • Yes. I welcome submissives of all genders, identities, and experience levels so long as you are respectful and we are mutually compatible.

    I am currently prioritizing in-person submission. Those who are unable to see Me in the dungeon, are welcome to subscribe to My LoyalFans or subscribe to My newsletter for rare touring announcements

    I particularly enjoy guiding newbies into their first authentic experiences of submission. Being nervous is part of the thrill! As a professional Domina, it’s My pleasure to help you navigate your curiosity safely.

    Go to My resources page for more helpful information.

  • Address me as Miss Sable unless given permission to do otherwise. The honorifics “Domina” and “Mistress” are reserved for good pets only.

  • You can take a peek at some of my current curiosities and limits over at My sessions page.

    I am open to learning about —and with — you regarding kinks and fetishes not listed. I also welcome sponsored learning opportunities (tribute via Throne or email Me) for expanding My skill set in BDSM practices and skills.

  • Generally, Monday–Friday, 10 am–7 pm, and Saturday–Sunday, 11 am–3 pm.

    My schedule usually fills about two weeks in advance, so I recommend booking a consultation 2–3 weeks before your desired session.

    When requesting My time, I require at least 72 hours’ notice. The more notice you give, the better I can create a thoughtful, tailored experience for us.

  • Yes. I require a non‑refundable deposit to confirm your appointment, which ensures our mutual commitment.

    Deposit amounts are based on the total tribute for your session. Discreet options are available upon request.

  • I require at least 48 hours’ notice for cancellations of social affairs, sessions, and consultations. If I cancel, you will be refunded or invited to reschedule.

    Your deposit will be credited toward a rescheduled appointment within 4 weeks of the original date. You may rebook once after cancellation; a second rescheduling request requires a new deposit.

    No‑shows and cancellations with less than 48 hours’ notice will forfeit the deposit or payment and owe the total booking tribute.

  • I am based in Chicago and host sessions in a selection of private, beautifully appointed spaces on the Northwest side of the city. Exact location details are shared once your appointment is confirmed.

    I also tour other cities occasionally. Follow Me on Bluesky or subscribe to My newsletter for upcoming travel dates.

  • As you can imagine, I take pride in the smallest details, including professionalism, appearance, and bodily self-care. As not to be turned away at the door, I suggest you return the effort.

    Tribute: Bring cash tribute discreetly (envelope, card, or book) and present it upon arrival. Gratuity in cash is always appreciated. Visit My About page for gift ideas.

    Remain chaste: I ask clients to refrain from sexual activity or release at least 72 hours before our session. This gets you into the right headspace by building anticipation.

    Promptness: Arrive on time. Do not arrive early or late without notice.

    Hygiene: Shower, brush teeth, wear clean clothing, minimal fragrance. For specialized play, cleanse internally up to three hours in advance. Enema instructions can be found here.

    Self-care: Please eat a light snack and hydrate before a session.

    Illness and intoxication: Do not come to session with illness symptoms or while intoxicated. I am vaccinated and boosted against COVID and the flu, and greatly appreciate clients who have done the same.

  • I wear whatever makes me feel powerful and apt for the scene I craft. If you purchase something off my wishlist, you may experience the very special experience of seeing me in it.

    Polite outfit requests are considered; highly specific requests may require you to provide the item.

  • That sounds like fun! Yes, you can apply for social time with me.

    As a natural‑born hedonist, a social affair with Me can be conversational, fun, educational, relaxing — you may even get a taste of My worldly curiosity.

    I take pride in My appearance in public; it reflects well on us both. If My tattoos are a concern for your discretion, simply let Me know ahead of time.

  • To start, be responsive, respectful, and honest in your communication.

    I appreciate gifts and services ranging from the practical to the luxurious. Browse my Throne wishlist to learn about my tastes and needs.

    Show your appreciation in person by arriving to session with cash gratuity, a bouquet of flowers, loose-leaf tea, or healthy snacks. Note that I am allergic to oats and do not drink alcohol or eat red meat.

  • You may choose to apply for a paid video or phone consultation with no expectation of booking a BDSM session.

    The cost for this is $200 for 35 minutes via video, $150 via phone.